Break Up Signs
Wednesday, September 1st, 2010
Are you wasting nights speculating whether your relationship has faltered on the rocks, crunching your stomach each time he talks in horror off those two words ‘it is over’? Completly understandable especially when you have grown comfy and don’t want to burst that fantasy fairy bubble of you and him living happily eternally.
Alas the signs that it’s coming to an end are all there so you cannot deaden yourself forever. Here are some signs husband is not in love.
1) Time is one of the obvious signs husband is not in love. Where he spends his time shows a lot about your relationship. If he doesn’t ring the bell at your door anymore, doesn’t remember that cup of tea after work and generally ‘hurried’ becomes his most used by word, then you have a serious predicament. If he is the thoughtful type or is too fearful to break up with you, then he will give you a date after a long period but don’t be surprised though if he leaves quickly.It may not be new work commitments but maybe, just maybe, someone else is taking your time.
2)Poor communication is another of the clear signs husband is not in love. A solid relationship is based on letting each other know whats happening. So if there are no calls from him and he either doesn’t return yours or does so once in a long while then he could be losing interest in you and you could be headed for a break up. Leaving messages would not take to much from him would it?. If communication has expired or is dying this is one among many obvious signs husband is not in love and if you do not turn the tide, you’re done for!
3) Funds do not flow in your path.When the money stops coming in, it’s time to change course. Obviously…you are not in it for his money. Well, whatever helps you rest at night, but if he is not using some of his money on you, he is spending it on another woman. Unless of course he is tight fisted who has never, even in the heady initially days, used any money on you. And that is a whole other problem. We spend our money on the things that we love or care about so if he is not using money on you then what does it say about how he feels about you.
4) He has new tastes. A sign of a recent influence in his life. Out of the blue he enjoys the color pink for his shirts and ties although he in the past thought it was too girlie. He now spends hours at the mirror and has changed his cologne, this is one among many breakup signs. Just out of interest, when was the last time he wore that shirt that you got him for christmas? Don’t worry girl, a new love interest is running his wardrobe.
5) He is playing psyche games. You have arguments over the tinyest things and lately anything seems to lead to a blow out, a great foreboder of a breakup. You tip toe on egg shells around him and any questions or remarks become an dispute. He is grumpy and says horrible things! Take heed, he is shifting blame to stop himself feeling guilty.